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Psychosomatics of brittle nails

Nails break and split most often from water and cleaning products, with age and during pregnancy. Usually it is not dangerous. Sometimes brittle nails are a sign of low iron or thyroid problems, so changes are worth showing a doctor. The Ladder method adds questions about how you protect yourself and your boundaries, and it does not replace a doctor.

Айжан Ли
Aizhan LiAuthor of the Ladder method
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When to see a doctor

Do not put off a visit if a nail has changed shape or colour or come away for no clear reason, or the skin around a nail is sore, red, swollen and warm. See a doctor urgently if the redness spreads quickly, you have a high temperature or there is pus.

A GP or dermatologist looks at brittle nails. The doctor examines the nails and skin, may order a blood test for haemoglobin, ferritin and thyroid hormones, and takes a scraping if a fungal infection is suspected. Treatment depends on the cause.

In the Ladder method

In the Ladder method brittle nails are not explained as "you are destroying yourself". You are not to blame. It is worth checking your iron and thyroid first. Questions to yourself belong next to that, not instead of it.

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In the method nails fit the image of "protection": what you can protect yourself with, where your boundaries are thin and people cross them easily, and whether you can stand up for yourself. Many women spend years washing, cleaning and running the house without being gentle with their hands or themselves. It is an image, not the cause, and it does not replace treatment.

On the ladder this shows up as the steps "it feels awkward to say no" and "I cannot stand up for myself". You can work through them at your own pace alongside tests and care.

These are questions for reflection, not an explanation of what causes the condition and not a treatment.

Quick check: what may be behind it

  1. Where do you have nothing to protect yourself with right now?

  2. Who is it hard for you to say "no" to?

  3. How do you take care of your hands and of yourself?

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How it shows up

Book a doctor’s appointment if you notice:

  • Nails break and split
  • Nails are thin and soft
  • Nails curve like a spoon
  • Pits or ridges on the nails
  • A nail has changed colour
  • Tiredness and hair loss at the same time

What medicine knows

The NHS says nail problems are not usually caused by anything serious. With age nails get thicker and break more easily. During pregnancy they can be harder, softer or more brittle, and they usually recover within six months after the birth.

Common causes: hands often in water or cleaning products, injuries, biting your nails or picking the skin around them, fungal infection, a lot of nail varnish.

Sometimes nail changes are a sign of another condition: iron deficiency anaemia (nails get thin and curve like a spoon), an underactive or overactive thyroid, psoriasis, diabetes. Some medicines can also make nails brittle.

Rubber gloves for cleaning and washing up, hand cream rubbed into the nails too, trimming straight across and not cleaning under nails with sharp objects all help. If brittle nails come with tiredness, hair loss and paleness, it is worth getting tests.

Sources

  1. Nail problems. Национальная служба здравоохранения Великобритании (NHS)
  2. Nail Diseases. MedlinePlus, Национальная медицинская библиотека США

Frequently asked questions

Why do nails break and split?

Most often from water and cleaning products, injuries, nail biting, age or pregnancy (NHS). Sometimes it is a sign of low iron or thyroid problems, so if you have other complaints it is worth getting tests.

What do brittle nails mean in psychosomatics?

There is no proven "meaning". In the Ladder method brittle nails become a reason to ask yourself what you protect yourself with and where your boundaries are thin. It is a question to yourself, not a diagnosis.

Which tests should I take for brittle nails?

The doctor decides. Haemoglobin and ferritin are often checked, since spoon-shaped nails can be a sign of iron deficiency anaemia, and so are thyroid hormones (NHS). If a fungal infection is suspected, a scraping is taken.

Psychosomatics of brittle nails: explained by Aizhan Li, author of the Ladder method

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Psychosomatics does not replace tests and treatment. Only a doctor can make a diagnosis.