Why do I not do what I promise myself? How do I start trusting myself?: video overview of Aizhan Li’s text

Name: Why do I not do what I promise myself? How do I start trusting myself?: video overview of Aizhan Li’s text
Uploaded: 2026-11-15T00:00:00+05:00
Duration: 6 min 11 s
Description: A video overview of the answer to “Why do I not do what I promise myself? How do I start trusting myself?”, made from the text by Aizhan Li, author of the Ladder method. Promises to yourself fall apart when they are too big, too vague or made out of guilt instead of desire.

A video overview of the answer to “Why do I not do what I promise myself? How do I start trusting myself?”, made from the text by Aizhan Li, author of the Ladder method. Promises to yourself fall apart when they are too big, too vague or made out of guilt instead of desire.

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